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cumbria78 aged 39
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Female , 39

Attached 31yr old redhead who has 12yrs (probably more if assessed sooner) experienceS of mental health problems inc:-agoraphobia, panic attacks & depression. Put 8st and lost 7 then had 10/more jobs (upto 6mnths) where employers have dismissed me/I`ve left due to miscommunication/stress.

I work at home as a Massage Therapist 2-3days a wk, am a cleaner 5mornings and do 2 ladies gardens 2 afternoons

Life experiences

Social Phobia

Something I`m living with/have for 12yrs -Heightened anxiety/panic in queues, niteclubs and meeting a group of strangers for the 1/2nd time.
Anxiety in pubs & restaurants aswell as above
Agoraphobia-left college due to daily panic attacks and ended up not being able to go urther tahn the local shop on my own


Something I`m living with/have always lived with-Something I live/don`t often cope with-
On-going anxiety throughoutt the day regarding irrational worrying, obsessional worries, inability to relax for longer than an hour at a time


3/4 YRS AGO Overcome

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