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blueeyes74 aged 42
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Female , 42

I am a 40 year old mother of 4. I have a lot to give a person who is struggling with lifes many situations. I have worked with mental health and also with alcohol, drugs,i have a diploma in phsychology and level 2 in social care. I am currently studying at open university for c.b.t. and counselling level 3. I have had a lot of unfortunate times in my life which I have had to over come and i would like to sharewhati know to help other people who maybe suffering, depression, anxiety, addictions,trouble teenagers or as my 11 year old boy is autistic i am able to advise about that too. Ive experienced physical abuse as child and also in relationships. I was married and divorced due to my ex self harming and sectioned. ive been homeless more than once with young children. i have a big area of experiences and want to share how i overcame them to help others.i am also a very good listener. I will have advice on relationships life money

Life experiences

Physical abuse.

As I child I was mentally and physically abused which affected me as I got older. As a child I could never have friends or socialise with other children. I was beaten on a daily basis with my step fathers leather belt. I'm currently writing autobiography as writing things down that's in my mind does help with closure. On a posotive note I believe it's make me the person I am today.

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There are a numerous events happend in my life that has later ended in being poorly with depression. I've been physically abused mentally abused by step father and my first partner. I've been married and divorced .had to care for partner who I was forced into signing him to be sectioned for 2 week and same time as having a newborn baby. That started me drinking so had problems with that. I don't drink anymore. I was made homeless with 4 children. I've had to squat in a house with my kids too. I moved over 200 miles to get away from it all and met my man who I'm with now. My ex followed me which caused whole more stress. Anyone going through any of these issues and more I can help and give advice. I'm stronger as a person after all this and now have concealer level 3 and cbt therapist and diploma in physchology and want others to do all the things that they are capable of doing and more.


Addiction is something I know alot about as through out my life I've gone from one addiction to the next. But I want people in that situation that there is a way out and live a normal life.

Why mentor on horsesmouth?

I want to share and give help or advice to anyone who is in need of someone to help them through there situation at this time. I want to help people and I have a real empathy with people and I im confident I could help. also to maybe make sure no one goes through what I have

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