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Tommyh aged 37
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Survivor , Funny , strong

Self description

Male , 37

I am a married father of three. I live on the south coast and work in London as a tube driver.
I have over come a recent bout of depression and anxiety.
I go to the gym regularly and try and eat well.
I support Fulham FC and love to bake in my spare time.

Life experiences

Low self esteem

I've suffered from low self esteem for as long as I can remember. I am learning to love myself more as I get older and am in the perfect position to help others.

sexual abuse

As a sufferer myself I can relate to it. I can also give the best advice I can in how to overcome the feelings of guilt and confusion attached.


I love positivity now. Not necessarily religion, but spirituality is an important belief in my life and can look to giving advice in how to over come either.

Why mentor on horsesmouth?

As I suffered childhood sexual abuse and suffered from confusion over my sexuality, which resulted in destructive behaviours both in and out of my relationships and a certain level of reliance on alcohol, I can help people through, and help them identify, the warning signs of destructive behaviours. In any aspect.

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