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Soodynum aged 41
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Positive , Confident , Helpful

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Male , 41

I am a 38 year old dad to twin girls, one of whom has Cerebral Palsy. I work away a lot and don't see my kids as much as I like but that's something I'm going to change. I travel quite a bit and have experienced quite a bit of change in my life but the one thing I have learned to do is to be happy.

Life experiences

Coping with being alone.

I spend a lot of my time, far to much actually traveling away from my family and I have learned how depressing it can be and how to get the positives from your own company and your time.


I have a daughter who has cerebral palsy and my wife and myself have struggled through various procedures, operations and just day to day life on how to deal with it. No one prepares you for that side of it.


I've had a couple some good, some bad and now I am with my soul mate but it wasn't easy getting there for either of us. There were speed bumps along the way I can tell you.

Why mentor on horsesmouth?

I have been through a lot in my life, things that have brought me up and put me down, things self inflicted and brought on by others. I have learned over time what makes me happy and how to channel even the most negative of experiences into something that can be taken and turned into a positive life experience.

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