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ShaFire aged 23
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Female , 23

I am a Music Technology student after originally studying A-levels in the subjects history, sociology, business and maths. I could have applied myself and got really good grades but my heart wasnt in it so i left with terrible grades and started studying music which was honestly the best decision for me.

I was bullied all throughout school (primary and secondary) and I used to think something was wrong with me until i figured out that I was great, I had my own circle of friends around me and forget anybody that didnt realise that.

Life experiences


Because I have gone through my own stint of depression and I couldnt reach out to somebody for help and struggled through it on my own and I would like the opportunity to help somebody brave enough to realise they need help and to reach out for it.


Because I was bullied in school and I know what it feels like to have the problem be ignored by the authority figures and to feel quite alone but that does not have to be the case. I came out on the other end after some years but I would just like the opportunity to give somebody the help to come out of it a better person also.

Family Problems

Because I have gone through quite a bit with my own family and have learnt a great number of things such as when you live in close quarters with somebody accept the fact you are going to rub each other the wrong way, sometimes you have to agree to disagree and not everything others do is personal everybody has there own demons.

Why mentor on horsesmouth?

I want to become a mentor because I want to reach out and help people in anyway possible, whether that is just listening to a problem and asking questions or giving thought provoking advice. I've had periods in my life where I have been alone and needed some form of mentor. Although I made it through, it made things a little more difficult for me and if the option is open I would rather another didn't go through what I did.

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