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komserkan aged 35
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Helpful , Good Listener , Self-Confident

Self description

Male , 35

I am a Oil and Gas Analyst, from Turkey who moved to London in October 2013. I have always been known as a social, friendly and dedicated person but, of course, when I was a young man, I also suffered with problems in life in order to have my self-confidence or trust in people. I have had obsessive-compulsive disorder which was so serious when I was a teenager but now it is in controllable limits. I have been into many NGOs and social projects and I have had so many chances to talk to other people and help them to see their way much clearly. I am social, friendly, ambitious (in a constructive way) and open to learning any time.

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Career Progress

I am good at finding the advantageous parts on what people have in hand and directing them in how to use the tools they have efficiently. I can support a young a person in recognizing his own potential and what he can manage in life, in real. I am like a talent hunter.

Social Adaptation

I am good at making people comfortable and make them have their self-confidence back. I have had so much experience in social environments so I can help them to adapt in society in a mutual way both for them and the society.

Having Able-To-Do Mood

I can help young guys to believe in themselves. I can make people to believe in that they can reach their dreams no matter how much impossible it seems.

Why mentor on horsesmouth?

When I was a teenager I have suffered with some difficulties. I have had obsessive-compulsive disorder which is in acceptable level now but it was in a peak level when I was around 16-18 and it was so tough for me. I grew up in Turkey and when I was a teenager, mental problems were not acceptable in society so I could not tell anyone about my problems. I had been always successful at school but I always had perfectionism and self-confidence problems. Although I was always a social person, I always had a feeling that people are irritated by me so I was not into friend groups so often. We also had financial problems so I did not have much time to share fun times with friends. I always have had big dreams but all were blocked by big obstacles and prejudgments of people around me but I never gave up pushing. I know very well what being desperate means and I know the feeling of looking for a hand to help you. Someone around that can support you without judging so that is why I am here.

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