Selected mentor

Our online mentors offer free advice, coaching and mentoring support based on their own personal experiences. You can get in touch by using the contact button below. If you can't find a mentor on the topic you're interested in, try searching for a related topic or send out a call for help.

Brandybutter
Brandybutter aged 32
Tags: Add tags
Sign in / join horsesmouth



 

Profile

3 words

Kind , Quirky , Just

Self description

Female , 32

I was bullied a lot at school which has had some impact on my life other then just being really shy. I self harmed and gradually had more and more panic attacks when I was stressed.
I tried to ignore this, but it got worse and a year and a half ago I had a really bad experience which developed my panic attacks into a fear of crowds. This affected my everyday life.
A year and a half on I have much improved - I can go into a fairly busy town centre and can just about cope on a busy bus. It is getting better everyday and life is becoming more and more positive with the help of the people around me and through my own will power.

Life experiences

Fear of crowds, panic attacks

I have had plenty of experience in this and would hope that my experience might help someone in some way. I can try to explain how I am overcoming this anxiety and can give help and advice on what is working for me.

Shyness

This can make simple things in life quite hard - I would like to talk to anyone who needs a friendly chat about this and I can just offer my thoughts and experiences.

Self harm

I self harmed for a long time. Seeing the scars made me stop as other people also seemed to see them, even when I tried to cover them up. Sometimes people blame themselves for something you do. There are ways of working through some problems.

Why mentor on horsesmouth?

I want to share my experiences and offer my opinions on what worked for me. I hope that having someone to talk to about your and their experiences makes someone feel like they are not alone. I also am a very good listener and like to ask questions, and hope that someone will benefit from getting in contact with me.

Add to contacts
Contact mentor
Invite to group

advert - horsesmouth

Similar mentors

These mentors have similar life experiences - they could possibly help you

No mentors with similiar experiences were found 


Didn't find the mentor you were looking for?

Why not send out a general call for help to everyone

What is online mentoring?

If you've lived, you've learned...and you've probably got a story to tell. Mentoring online is the perfect way to share your hard earned-wisdom with those who can benefit from your experiences and knowledge, all in a supportive, safe and secure online environment. It takes seconds to sign up and you never know who you might meet!

Other users say...

 

I am very lucky to have found your website. Recently I wrote about a problem which I face very often.... There were 10 responses from 10 mentors. They have really explained to me and made me understand that I do not have any problem. Your services are wonderful and I am very much thankful to all of you.

I have been mentoring on HM for 18 months. I really enjoy it & hopefully I am helping other people. Recently I posted my my first 'request for a mentor'. I have been completely bowled over by the response. So many people taking their time & making the effort to offer constructive advice in a friendly polite manner. For me it completely validates the intent behind HM. It reminds me how many good, helpful people there are out there. Thanks for providing such a great service.
'I called out for mentor assistance a week or so ago.

I have been inundated with unbelievably helpful replies, and now have a toolkit to draw on to start turning around behaviours and mind-sets that have been detrimental in my life.

I just want to thank Horsesmouth and all the amazing people who reached out to me.  Each and every one of you has given me something to think about, and some have given me heaps of material with which to start working.  Now I need to do the work! Thank you so much!' 

advert - horsesmouth