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alexdean aged 48
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Female , 48

After suffering horrific bullying at school I shut myself away from the outside world and wrote about my experiences.
I am passionate about equality for all and now that I have regained my strength, speak out on these issues.
I have been supporting a number of teenagers through their experiences of bullying and 'coming out' and I have written about these subjects.

Life experiences


Having suffered horrific bullying myself I know the devastating effects it has on its victims. I would like to support other victims.


I am a lesbian and have experienced the daily struggles of being accepted. i passionately believe in equality for all.

disability, depression and anxiety

My depression and anxiety were the direct result of my bullying. i spent eight months in hospital but came through it and out the other side. Hopefully I may be able to inspire others that there is light at the end of the tunnel

Why mentor on horsesmouth?

I hope that I can pass on what I have learned from life. My life's journey is to help others make a positive change in their own lives. You have taken the first step of reaching out by visiting this site... I am here ready to listen.

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