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Cirondel aged 36
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Listener , Empathetic , Knowledgeable

Self description

Male , 36

People know me as an abstract thinker with the amazing ability to communicate complex concepts and solutions very clearly. I aspire to find harmony in all relationships, and find it very easy to see most things from other people's point of view. Interesting fact: I have a special knack for finding creative solutions for mundane tasks.

Life experiences

Relationships and Dating

For some reason my friends seem to think I'm well beyond my years when it comes to relationship and dating advice. Perhaps it's my logical and practical thinking advice paired with my strongly intuitive sensitivity to understand when social dynamics might perhaps be amiss. All of this together makes me a keenly perceptive judge of character when it comes to any relationship oriented question. Even if you just need a listening ear, I'll be there to hear what needs to be vented. Or if it's just the straight up honest, cut-throat truth that is requested, then I am prepared to divvy up a solid reality check to help motivate towards positive changes.


2010 National USA Dance amateur finalist. West Coast Swing intermediate level competitor. Professional ballroom, latin, swing dance instructor, competitor, choreographer, performer. Over 10 years of dance experience. I understand how to succeed in learning how to dance with or without a partner. Also I specialize in how to find a practice partner who will motivate you to succeed and perform at you highest level of abilities. I like to inspire my students to succeed and have fun learning and loving to dance.

Depression and Social Anxiety

I used to struggle with depression and social anxiety during my later years in college, and spent some years researching trying various methods to overcome these issues. Did not find any lasting success results from any medications or even from counselling and mentoring. Discovered that the most lasting and empowering effects were from powerful affirmations like those found in guided listening audio CD's. I am always willing to offer a listening ear, understanding, and even some motivating support to those who desire to be free of the weight of their burdens and anxieties.

Why mentor on horsesmouth?

I want to help others to make positive changes in their life, or simply to allow those folks down on their luck and opportunity to vent their feelings into a listening ear. That's me. I love learning from the experiences of people from different cultures, and I have an appreciation for the vast differences that comes wrapped up into every person's unique personality. I enjoy helping others to find ways to succeed and to better maintain unity and harmony in this world and and in their relationships. I am also known to have a variety of obscure knowledge of various interesting topics that comes in handy from time to time.

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