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M7brainfood aged 37
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determined , compassionate , undestanding

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Male , 37

I was born in South Africa and educated there. A BAdegree drop-out, i have been living in England for seven years. I like reading and research and i am currently working for one of the top UK construction company. Am very passionate about sharing my advises with the world based on real experiences. With a chance to share these experiences, the world avoids alot of ill-informed tradegies and therefore everyone would find it really interesting to welcome the next day.

Life experiences


healthy lifestyles play a major role in our life. i did not believe this until i survived a chest infection due to too much smoking.Always listen to the next person for they know a thing or two about life.Not underating all the people who gave me advice helped me in knowing that each and every one of us has a magnificent role to play in making the world more adorable. There are a lot of issues we don't know about our own bodies and it is this drive that keeps me keen to share how conforming to strict exercise and diet programmes really helps in overcoming these stambling blocks.Commitment and dedication also played such a huge role and it is part of what brings success in many aspects of life. Remember, a healthy life means a healthy world and therefore less of other mental problems that would invade our happy living as a people.As soon as i discovered progress in my sickness, i opened my ears to anyone because i had come to know that life is not a one-man league.


personal experience and research can help me help others in this respect.My personal experinces have enlightened me in all respects of peer pressure and self-induced pressure and this has made me realise that in as much as i would kick myself for not being up there with the rest of my friends or workmates, there are things i could change and those i could not.In my own discovery, that is a crucial part of self-realisation. Alot of us loose happiness, good health and jeorpadise their comfort because of believing that they have under-achieved. Let me tell u that there is a lot in the world to explore and never insult your personality by being too comparative. You are your own persona and don't try and borrow someone's philosophy because it can only bring a lot of misery in your life. This will be like using someone's brains for duties you personally have passion for.Learn to like your personality and develop it without the risk of overconfidence and setting sky-high goals unneccessarily


this aspect of life relates to what i have overcome in terms of complications created by heavy personal debt , different beliefs, loyality problems within my own relationship and eventually how i overcame all these situations.A lot of relationships fall apart not because participant can not solve puzzles but because of simple things that can be overcome. My ego would not let me loose in any argument but through listening to a lot of programmes on tv about relationships, i realised that no matter how many times you won't let your partner win, that does not solve anything but it makes you distant and the concept of building the relationship is defeated.Just like at work, the key to a successfull relationship is the two players involved to put their all and work for the union, always be prepared for dialogue, always be prepared to listen for nothing beats an attentive ear. I have learnt that contrary to popular belief, love grows and loving someone is a learning process.Be part of it.

Why mentor on horsesmouth?

when you have walked the road, you always want to advise anyone who might be going through the same issues in their lives. The love to share varied areas of researched subjects spearheads the desire to be in a position where you can mentor. I think i have conquired one of the deadly dieases and can share with the world that life is there to embrace with both hands, never giving up because fresh breath from the trees never gives up on us.This kind of mentoring saves a lot of lives and brings light to all those who think they are alone in their horrible encounters. The world is full of different experiences and it only takes one to be on horsesmouth to share and explore different sides of stories and get on to enjoy life more and that can be done by sharing your life experiences with mentors on horsesmouth.Giving something back is socially releiving because you will always feel good that you have shared and done everything you could to share your experiences and that would change things.

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