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youngvixen
It''s complicated
Wednesday, 17 May 2017 14:16 PM

I would really love advice on some relationship difficulties I''m going through.

It involves a guy I was seeing for a couple of month''s and I recently found out that he had a girlfriend during the time we''ve been seeing each other.
When we first started seeing i was aware that he was or just got out of a r.s...
one of my friends told me that they weren''t necessarily a couple but they still kept in contact
But he assured me they weren''t together anymore they broke up but that wasn''t completely true.

I need advice on whether to cut him out of my life even if I still have feelings for him.

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